Did you notice how often you mentioned examples of economic privilege in your piece? I'm not a fan of the bourgeoisie, no matter what their gender or hue.

I confess that your mention of projection makes me wonder about your relationship insecurities. My wife is an amazing woman. We've been happily married for forty years. Really, good relationships primarily consist of treating your partners with love and respect and ignoring the opinions of people who're obsessed with material things.