If you're insulting, you've lost. Some people like to skip the argument and go straight to the admission they've lost.

I started to say "I don't make the rules" as a joke, but I would argue that I actually don't: https://medium.com/a-universalist-in-an-identitarian-age/respect-everyone-the-wisdom-of-malcolm-x-st-peter-chief-tecumseh-and-more-dddc3b504968