People who argue for “privilege” always erase class. Out of curiosity, which income quintile do you belong to?
“I also believe your example of gay marriage and LGBTQ rights never really got going until middle class or better white gay men and lesbian women, as well as the same demographic of allies pushed for, again, rights you said yourself that all humans should have without question. It was only the push of white privilege that made it possible those rights be reaffirmed by a separate law.”
Does that mean you think all middle-class GLBTQ people are white, or that all white people are middle-class or better? You seem to be trying to have it both ways on the importance of whiteness and the irrelevance of class.