To cut a little slack for the men you know: Long hair is a symbol of freedom for many, whether it's worn by men or women. Cut hair can be a symbolic submission to authority.

But to cut less slack, a lot of people have limited tastes. I had long hair when I was young, and I was told by women that they were sorry when I cut it.

Do what you want. Some people will be disappointed. That's their concern, not yours.